"How to recover after losing your love" - ​​or "What can I do to not think about him?"

Not so long days before I met with my best friend, with whom, we have been friends from the cradle. We are friends from little up (childhood).

When we see each other we always have find interesting topics for discussions. We have many exiting talks about various things, like:  the latest brands in fashion: relationships between boys and girls, and of course we retell our life happening stories. We understand each other pretty easily, I would say at a glance. We always try to listen to each other, however, still remains of our own opinion. This is what I like about our relationships: they are simple, easy, and mostly i get of them valuable conclusions and support in difficult moments.

Today she gave me question for a very interesting theme that I would like to share with you. We were thinking a long time about this topic, looking for the answers to these questions. However, it seems that everyone is able to answer this question by own. Proceeding from my own personal experience, I can tell you that this topic meet a lot of controversy and controversial opinions.

I think many of you have encountered with these questions: I parted with my boyfriend - "How to forget him when you feel bad and lonely?"; "What can I do to not think about him?"; “I love him, but he isn’t”; "Is it everything so hopeless?"

So, are you ready to hear our conclusions?! Well, firstly we surf to the Internet in searching for answers to these questions. We became interested what ponder global network over these problems related with people’s life. How do they manage it?

So, after watching a lot of pages on the network, we came to the conclusion. The global network says, - “the best way to forget about unhappy love and relationships are eating sweets and occupy your new or present hobby”.

 We thought, - “Is it enough?”  

–No, of course not.
However, we know other ways to combat it. So I decided to prescribe to you, all those methods that used my friend and I’m when it was needed. So, you can no doubt in their effectiveness. They are full of personal and life experiences. Let’s begin… 

1) Throw away all things, which remind you about him. 

2) Erase his phone number and fotos from your cell phone. 

To not think about him, and generally about zero (0) relationships, you have to:

3) Write all the negative qualities that disturb this relationships itself. 
Yes, you are probably asking: How it can bad influence us? And the answer’s can be quite varied. For example, we tend to forget about school, lessons, it’s wasted a long time (on gossip, etc.), and you were contradicting and swearing to parents (when they were a barrier in yours meetings): you had not enough time to sleep, etc. There will be enough answers and excuses. Believe me.

4) You can working out at your figure, swimming, dancing, shopping, going to mountains, etc. In general, do whatever you like. 

5) You can also visiting crowding places (i.e exhibition galleries; party’s, concerts, theaters, museums). Do your life active!

6) Sweets get really uplifting.  Not overdose it! 

7) Take all your free time, to not have time to think about him. 

8) Spend time with your friends. Do not be afraid to make new. You only become stronger and more legible. 

9) Consider all the disadvantages of your ex-boyfriend. Believe me, you will find them a lot. You saw only pluses and positive sides, because of your blind love. 

Summary: Take a look on your relationships from a totally different point of view. Understand, mainly if you get (going) parting with him, you don’t lose a lot.
Don't let that get you down. Chin up! We live once, and we must live happy with no regrets. So do we need cry in one's pillow? Believe me, our cute teddy bear are tired by our tears and cry stories.
Love is not a struggle and fight. We don’t need to kill it. Well, Chin up! Don’t forget to smile, because your smile makes you beautiful! I believe, you certainly will find your true love.
Smile, whole world will be pulled to you!

Love Roxi.M